Wednesday, July 8, 2015

Five Things Attractive Men Must Know

Most men want to have more -- or better -- women in their lives. However, they don’t know how to make it happen. Some think it’s about getting more money -- that's wrong. Others think it’s about wearing the hippest clothes -- that's wrong. The most powerful attractor of woman is how you are when you’re with them. Check out these 10 ways to become a more attractive guy.
 Learn how to tell an interesting story about anything
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A key aspect to becoming a more attractive guy is being able to tell an interesting story about anything. Interesting stories are like operas and myths -- they have common patterns and a structure you can learn. One of the elements of an interesting story is a protagonist -- the good guy. This works especially well if you make him the underdog who comes back after getting knocked down. Some other elements are conflict, tension, tragedy, and humor. And there’s usually characters that are very different from one another, and who have unpredictable interactions that lead to situations you would have never thought of. Learn how to tell a killer story and women will love you for it.
Learn Cocky Comedy
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One of the most powerful attraction-boosting talents you can develop is something I call Cocky Comedy. It’s about combining cockiness or arrogance with humor. It’s being sassy. It’s saying things that make her jaw drop and making her say “I can’t believe you just said that,” and then hitting you in a playful way. If you want some models of Cocky Comedy, watch James Bond, Clark Gable, Letterman, or Stern. These guys always have a wise-ass thing to say, and as you’re thinking “You’re a bastard for saying that,” you’re laughing. Remember: too much Cocky and you’ll come across as insecure. Too much Funny and you’ll come across as goofy. How do you know if it’s working? She’s laughing.
Make friends with attractive women by becoming a guy who women like being around
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One of the best things you can do for your success with women and dating is to make friends -- just friends -- with several women who are like the women you would like to date?Why? Because having these types of women as friends will teach you how to interact with women like them -- they’ll teach you everything you need to know. And best of all, they’ll bring the women to you.
Tease in every way
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What does teasing mean? Some people think it means “make fun of her in a mean way.” I don’t mean that. You want to tease psychologically, emotionally and physically, in a way that builds positive responses. If you tease a woman in a Cocky & Funny way, it starts some fun banter -- and that’s a good thing. If you tease a woman by putting your hand on top of hers and touch her hand gently, and she says “that’s nice,” then you take it away. Then every time she says she likes something you stop it -- you’re teasing her, it’s non predictable. When you do something then take it away, you build anticipation. The more you build anticipation with women, the more success you’ll have.
 Engage her emotions and her body, not so much her mind
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Approaching a woman on a logical plane to turn her on is a losing game. Trying to use logic to become an interesting and attractive guy just doesn’t work. It’s the old Russell Crowe sitting down at the bar in A Beautiful Mind and saying: “In essence, we’re just talking about fluid exchange, so let’s skip all the small talk and just hit it.” It doesn’t work that way. So how do you engage her emotions? You do things that are fun and adventurous. You tell stories that capture her heart and her mind. You learn how to touch a woman and what turns a woman on. Take the time to learn, and you’ll be rewarded with a lifetime of success with women.

For more great tips on becoming the man you were born to be, attracting women and taking things to a "physical" level smoothly, be sure to smell good because when you have a good cologne, woman will be easy to follow the path from loving your perfume to loving your body. And if you don't know where to start, I highly recommend Top 10 Perfumes For Men in 2015, which will help you understand more about male cologne.

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